Give someone the power to tell others what to do, the power to use force, fraud, and coercion against them, without repercussions. What do you think will happen?
Give a bunch of young men, indoctrinated in government schools to revere authority & obedience, guns, badges, and "immunity" from responsibility for their actions. What do you think will happen?
It doesn't matter if we're talking about a king claiming his *divine right* or a president claiming that they have power because people checked a box.
Any interaction that is not voluntary & consensual, is wrong.
What's the difference between rape & sex?
What's the difference between charity & taxes?
The "State" is the exact opposite of consent; it is a group of people claiming that they hold the monopoly on violence in an area, because at some time in the past, someone somewhere consented to it.